Ok I know we all wanna spice up our sex lives and I respect those who do the things I swear I would never do:
1) The handcuffs thingy....I NEVER not wanna feel in control of my life
2) The chain and sjambok thingy.... as for the chain I am not a dog and the sjambok only because it is painful
3) The beating each other up thingy.... That's just a NO for me for obvious reasons; I don't wanna be beat up, PERIOD
4) The burning each other with the candle water torture.... so you did notice that I used burning and torture in the same sentence, need I say more?
I like my sex Standard not Deluxe
There is a thin line between passion and abuse and I happen to know that line
Don't get me wrong, I respect those who do these things