·         Coming out at home was easy

Mom actually laughed thinking I was joking, and then she realized I wasn’t joking so she stopped laughing and then she started dealing and now she has dealt with this life so foreign to her world. She still asks me about grandchildren and then I tell her we will adopt but she is against it, I am sort of forced to do this In Vitro thing so I guess I will be pregnant and fat *eeuw*

She is also okay with the marriage thing, YAY but has asked me to not embarrass her (yes she is very religious and the community knows her for this), she asked if we could just go sign at Home affairs and if we want a big wedding, we can do it in Durban where my partner stays and she will be there

My mom is every lesbian dream mother and I am blessed. For her to put my happiness first humbles me. This thing, as she calls it, is something she is not used to and her willingness to learn it with me brings me to tears

·         Coming out at church

Erhmm *clears throat* so that will NOT happen....Just not (nor will I ever be) ready to be a prayer item